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Tomasina “Tommy” Kilmade

ALBANY – Tomasina “Tommy” (Fallone) Kilmade, 92, of Albany, passed away peacefully on Saturday, March 28, 2015, at the Daughters of Sarah Nursing Center.  Mrs. Kilmade was born in Mount Vernon, New York and lived most of her life in the Capital District.  She was a graduate of Voorheesville High School, and employed by the Duffy-Mott plant in Voorheesville until after World War II.  Beginning in the early 1960s, she was a cook in the Guilderland Central School District for many years.  Tommy’s talent for cooking resulted in her family and friends having many memorable meals and treats over the years.  The dozens of cookies from Granny’s kitchen were her grandchildren’s favorite.  She also was a long-time communicant of Holy Cross Church in Albany.

Tommy was predeceased by her husband of 67 years, Daniel J. Kilmade, Jr. in 2009.  She is survived by her children Anna-Marie Kilmade Tilghman (William S. Tilghman) of Springfield, Virginia, and Michael Kilmade (Debbie) of Albany; her grandchildren Daniel McCarthy, Kevin McCarthy, Christopher Kilmade, Joseph Kilmade (Jessica), and Maureen Kilmade (Erwin Vandenabeele); her sister-in-law Joan Rock Wallace; and several great-grandchildren and nieces and nephews.  She was also predeceased by her parents, Antonio Fallone and Anna Mary Pallone Wallace, her step-father, Peter Wallace, and her brothers Rocco Fallone, Stephen Wallace, and Peter Wallace.

Funeral services will be held at the Hans Funeral Home, 1088 Western Ave., Albany, Wednesday morning at 8:15 a.m., and from there to All Saints Catholic Church, 16 Homestead St. (behind CVS), at 9:00 a.m.  Relatives and friends are invited, and may call at the funeral home Tuesday from 4:00-7:00 p.m.  Interment will be in Calvary Cemetery, Glenmont.  The family welcomes memorial contributions to the Alzheimer’s Association of Northeastern New York, 4 Pine West Plaza, Suite 405, Albany, NY 12205.  To leave a message of condolence for the family or obtain directions to the funeral home, please visit


Click here to obtain a few of Mrs. Kilmade’s favorite recipes.


Click here to view Tommy’s resting place in Calvary Cemetery, 481 Route 9W, Glenmont, NY 12077 (Town of Bethlehem).





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