
GUILDERLAND – John F. O’Donnell, Esq., 83, an attorney who believed in the elegant logic of the law even as he pursued a philosopher’s quest to plumb the unfathom-able, died suddenly at home Monday, July 5, 2010. He had spent the Fourth of July executing swan dives off the springboard at the town pool. It was part of his annual summer ritual at Tawasentha Park, where he was on a first-name basis with the staff. He swam with his grandchildren there and managed to dip into Kant or Kierkegaard during breaks in the shade. O’Donnell, who was known as Jack, was also a passionate scholar and lifelong learner. At the time of his death, he was pursuing an extended course of independent study. He was currently studying the writings of Thomas Merton with Jeanne Wiley, associate professor of philosophy at The College of Saint Rose. O’Donnell had audited most of Wiley’s classes and a dozen more at Saint Rose in the years since his retirement. With a quiet, self-deprecating manner, O’Donnell was at peace in his core convictions. He never wavered in his bedrock faith as a devout Roman Catholic, in his devotion to his beloved wife and large family and in his abiding faith that a night at the movies and a Peppermint Pattie could sweeten almost any taste of sadness that life offered. He was a devoted husband and father, loving grandfather and uncle, true friend and wise counselor who will be remembered fondly. O’Donnell was born in Buffalo on May 30, 1927. While still a teenager, he served in the Navy during World War II aboard the aircraft carrier USS Princeton. After his military service, he attended St. Bonaventure University before earning a bachelor’s degree from Canisius College. He earned his law degree from the University of Buffalo and entered private practice with the Buffalo firm of Condon, Klocke, Ange & O’Donnell. He moved from Buffalo to the Capital Region in 1968 and served as a deputy commissioner with the state Division of the Lottery. He later joined the state Legislative Bill Drafting Commission, where he worked as a bill drafter who rendered the ideas of legislators into the precise legal language that could withstand floor debate and possible court challenges. He also penned scores of official proclamations, a skill that served him well in sprinkling his speeches at family milestones with a well-placed “whereas.” He practiced faith in action and served as an usher and Eucharistic minister at Our Lady of Angels Church in Albany and later at St. Madeleine Sophie Church in Guilderland, where he and his wife were communicants. He was also a former president of both the Secular Order of Discalced Carmelites (Third Order) in Schenectady and the Auxiliary of the St. Joseph’s Missionary Society, Mill Hill, in Guilderland. His memberships included the Legion of Mary, the Jewish-Catholic Dialogue and the American Legion.
He is survived by his loving wife of 54 years, Charlotte O’Donnell. He was the father of Ann (Michael) Carroll of Brunswick, Mary (Paul) Grondahl of Guilderland, Sheila O’Donnell of Paris, France, John (Julia) O’Donnell of Thornton, Pa. and Timothy O’Donnell of Albany. He was the grandfather of Samuel, Raphael, Caroline, Ryan, Jack and Mark. He was predeceased by his parents, Robert and Helen O’Donnell of Buffalo, and his brothers, Richard and Robert.
Calling hours will be Friday from 5-8 p.m. at Hans Funeral Home, 1088 Western Ave., Albany. A funeral Mass will be celebrated on Saturday at 10 a.m. at St. Madeleine Sophie Church, 3500 Carman Road in Guilderland. Burial will follow in St. Agnes Cemetery in Menands. Donations may be made in O’Donnell’s memory to the Discalced Carmelites of Rochester, 1931 W. Jefferson Rd., Pittsford, NY 14534. To leave a message of condolence in an online guest book, or obtain directions to the funeral home, please visit www.hansfuneralhome.com .
Jerry Vinikoff
I was privileged to know and work with Jack for many years at Bill Drafting. He was one of the veterans who made me feel welcome when I arrived.
Jack was a respected lawyer, with a lot of accumulated knowledge. Above all, the magnanimity of his character stood out. He befriended everyone and was always ready with a cheerful word. Despite his deep knowledge of religious doctrine, he responded to questions about Catholicism from this Jew with respect and humility.
Jack was a cherished colleague and friend. I looked forward to his visits after he retired.
With a nod toward Jack’s love of education, I offer a thought from “I am a Strange Loop”, by Douglas Hofstadter: We know that a part of his consciousness lives on in the consciousnesses of those who remember him.
My deepest sympathy to the bereaved.
Butch Smith
My heart felt condolences to the entire extented O’Donnell family. May you all find peace in your happy memories of Jack.
Priti Suri
I have not had the privilege of knowing Jack O’Donnell. But, I have heard his daughter Sheila talk about him often in the years that I have known her. And, after Sheila generously shared the eulogy of Jack, I feel compelled to articulate my thoughts.
I wish I had the honor of meeting him in person. A lawyer who juggled his love for the law, philosophy, someone who analyzed Merton, spend time with his children, grandchildren at their level, who served his community – all with ease, finesse and a grace that appears to come from self-contentment, and a life lived fully and gloriously.
I think the warmth of the tribute by his family and friends only reinforces the influence Jack has had on them. Today he is not physically amidst his loved ones, but he will always be watching over them from his special place.
My condolences to Mrs. O’Donnell and the family. He will continue to live through all of you, and be with you at each step of the way.
Patricia (O'Donnell) Alessi
Dear Aunt Charlotte and family,
I was thinking about you today. When I learned of Uncle Jack’s passing, I was deeply saddened. I can’t help but smile, however, when I think of what a kind, spiritual man he was. I found this beautiful write-up about him which portrays his numerous virtues and accomplishments, but I believe it was his devotion to family and God that made him the special man that he was and is.
My heart is, and always will be, with all of you. Much love.